The 60-year-old guy who doesn't like the show is allowed to not like it, y'all. lol
BUT, I would offer to anyone who sees the show and hates it to reconsider the vulgar language, wokeness, self-sabotaging protagonist, etc. and ask if this is someone's lived-experience that maybe they, as the viewer, aren't familiar with.
For me, I'm not fat, but I am gay and Black, and the show thrills me because who would've thought I would see so many specific things about my experience so fearlessly performed on a Broadway stage in such a raw way?! And if you aren't any of those things, there are so many ways in — being othered, having a dream and feeling pushback in so many ways, not feeling great about your body, desiring love and not being able to have it reciprocated... I mean, Usher is all of us, constantly fighting with our inner demons and thoughts, but also growing tremendously by facing them head on, or learning when to ignore them.
In addition, we all should know by now that what is elevated with accolades in the theater industry is often not everyone's cup of tea, but it's difficult to say that the work does not challenge you. The theater industry is GREAT at choosing challenging work that moves the art forward.
Plays or musical, the throughline of all the drama pulitzer winners is honesty. All those works are saying something true. So with that said, I think the poster was challenged. Being challenged often leads to a defense of some sort. But instead, I would offer to just sit with the work and let it take you to a place you never explored and see how it has possibly changed you...