Avg age for menopause is 51. So while it gets more difficult to conceive after 35, it's not terrible rare. (Think about all those Catholic families with ten plus children!)
I totally get Jordan's point. A 40 year old still chasing that lifestyle, giving up what could be her last chance to have a child (no, not all women WANT a child, I know) is more tragic than a young adult making those same choices.
If we're not having fun, then why are we doing it?
These are DISCUSSION boards, not mutual admiration boards. Discussion only occurs when we are willing to hear what others are thinking, regardless of whether it is alignment to our own thoughts.