The family is already IN NY, they all came out.
While I know anything is possible, why shouldn't he just leave when he's planned to? Bedtime is a big deal to most families. It's a security for young children. I also think i remember that he said something about a promise he made to his husband.
If we're not having fun, then why are we doing it?
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