I didnt like any of the characters in Rent - which is why I hated the show. And would have described them similarly to what you said about DEH.
They dont feel DEH because he allows this lie to fester, they love it because they feel for his suffering, before, during and after. This is the way they perceive their lives. The more connected we are to technology, truly the more alone we feel.
If we're not having fun, then why are we doing it?
These are DISCUSSION boards, not mutual admiration boards. Discussion only occurs when we are willing to hear what others are thinking, regardless of whether it is alignment to our own thoughts.