Look at me, look at me is killing me. Dressing thematially, claiming that the show is 'just' for a certain group, singing along, obnoxious stage dooring. Second to this (and often interwoven) is the "YOU can't do it, they worked so hard" idea. Long gone is the idea to "love the art in yourself, not yourself in the art.
If we're not having fun, then why are we doing it?
These are DISCUSSION boards, not mutual admiration boards. Discussion only occurs when we are willing to hear what others are thinking, regardless of whether it is alignment to our own thoughts.