JGPR2 said: "Jordan - I will excuse the behavior at age 11, she was a child. I will blame her Mom who I would think had to accompany her while she was in "Ragtime". As an adult, she is responsible for her actions. Cory fell in love with her and Jonathan Groff like you said has been a good friend for years. I believe Darren Criss did a tour with her a couple of years ago and she attended his wedding. She seems to get along with Matthew Morrison and has performed with him several times. It appears most of the negativity (Glee) is from black women. Is she racist? I have no idea, I don't know her and have never heard of these issues before the recent tweet. You and "dramamama" know her so you know better than the rest of us. From the outside, it just seems hard to think she is a total b**** if the people mentioned above seem to like her."
It's perfectly common for bullies to be selectively nice to the "right" people. Based on these tweets, Lea has a history of creating an "in crowd" and an "out crowd", which is not an uncommon tactic. In the narcissistic abuse community, people refer to the narcissist as superficially charming, with a retinue of "enablers." I'm not saying that's what's going on here with the aforementioned actors, but people are definitely capable of being selectively friendly and those around them often are oblivious or make excuses/exceptions for their behavior.
Updated On: 6/2/20 at 11:09 AM