MagicalMusical said: "I do wonder, though, has anyone ever lobbied the criticism at the story thatis at all...pedophilic? That Clara would be a forever 10 year old and be in a romantic relationship to a man who grew older and older while she didn't? I don't think it is pedophilic, I would like to believe, much like her mother, that she blossoms into an emotional and mental state of someone at least of age, but...I was just wondering."
Well, this is the very crux of the show's conflict, for Margaret and, I suppose, for audiences. Is Clara an overgrown child who needs to be forever protected and never allowed to make decisions for herself? Or is she a capable free agent who can choose the life she wants to lead?
Throughout the first act, Margaret believes the former proposition, but the happenings in the second act convince her that Clara deserves to choose her own path. The title song does a lot of work in convincing Margaret to change her mind about this; she goes from a mother reluctantly indulging what she hopes is a passing infatuation to a mother willing to stand up for her daughter's right to marry the love of her life.
I've always taken it for granted that Clara is a fully competent adult, despite her limitations and eccentricities, and that Margaret's concerns are misplaced and shaped by her poor relationship with her own husband. So the possibility of "pedophilia," or, more precisely, lack of consent in her relations with Fabrizio, never really entered my mind.