Saw her speak at the 92nd St Y on February 17 of this year. (As part of the SHOOT ME publicity rounds - see link.) Physically frail, but sharp as a tack. Was this perhaps her final public NYC appearance? (Not counting her TODAY show appearance the following morning, where she made news by dropping a couple of F-bombs live. Ask Elaine Stritch for publicity, and she'd provide!)
There was only one and she will never be equalled.
This is exactly what I keep thinking. I don't think it's possible that there will ever be another performer like her, or even similar to her. She was purely original. It's the end of an era.
Imagine me at 14, wandering into the Alvin Theater (now the Neil Simon), alone, to see a Saturday matinee of a recently opened musical called Company, because a sophisticated friend of 15 had told me "It will change your life."
Imagine this fourteen-year-old, mouth agape, watching a gravelly voiced actress croaking out the verses to "The Little Things You Do Together."
And then imagine that boy witnessing "The Ladies Who Lunch" and rising, rising, RISING, RIIIIIIIIII-SING.
To borrow from the late Maya Angelou, and still I rise.
What a legend. A couple years ago she was going to do a concert in my neck of the woods. I had every intention of going, but she cancelled due to illness. I'm sad that I never got the chance to see her live.
Elaine's apt description of a depressed alcoholic's justification of drinking and poor behaviours made me realize my family pattern of substance abuse and that I was headed down that road if I didn't make some changes.
It's hysterical and poignant while truthfully exampling the ways we justify bad decisions. God, when she talks about the Dominican mini-bar waiter I always lose it.
Stritch in another life:
Sleep well, Madame.
"...ah, gays and their wit. Hell must be a laugh a minute!"
-Evie Harris
Requiescat in pace and thanks for the memories, Stritchie.
I'd have to ponder whether it was my first live Stritch experience--not dissimilar from that so eloquently evoked by PalJoey (although I was, >ahem< younger than he...) or my last: the 3rd time I saw 'At Liberty', that affected me more.
You never forget your first time, of course, but Oh, how much more I appreciated her wisdom, her independence, her effing SPIRIT when I had a few more years under my belt and knew something about the way the world works.
And thanks, HorseTears, for that clip! How did I never see that??? Perfect!
"I'm not moving 'til somebody comes and takes me off the stage". I guess somebody came...
You think, what do you want?
You think, make a decision...
Sooo very sad- she was a brilliant comedienne and actor who could deliver a line like NO ONE else! What a body of work she has left behind for the world to continue to enjoy and love! R.I.P
I (literally) walked into her right before the start of a performance of Into The Woods in the park. I wasn't being too observant and had no clue it was her and just said, "oh, sorry!" She didn't blink twice and just went on her way to the front of the stage to inspect the set, practically climbing onto it. When I got to my seat everyone around me screamed, "do you realize who you just walked into?!"
A true legend and an icon. I feel so incredibly fortunate to have seen her in A Little Night Music and I thought her performance was hilarious and very moving. Rest in Peace.
I am a firm believer in serendipity- all the random pieces coming together in one wonderful moment, when suddenly you see what their purpose was all along.
I'm so glad I was lucky enough to see her in A Little Night Music (several times, I might add). She was truly a singular talent. They don't make 'em like her anymore.
Not sure if this was posted earlier, but this is my favorite of her Ladies... I've always wondered what happened before to prompt the performance. It's unlike any of the others. Truly astonishing. She is LIVING the song as she sings it. And the doubt that plagues her voice on "Aren't they the best?" will haunt me forever.