My first major connection was to "My Fair Lady," at the age of 11. I fell in love with the movie and decided to become an actor at that point. (Alas, being too short, too clumsy, and lacking a sufficient voice, as well as being too chicken ultimately stopped me). As an adult, I can see the brilliance of the story -- it really is a feminist tale, since Higgins doesn't fall for Eliza till he realizes she's his equal.
Despite my youthful attachment to "My Fair Lady," "The Phantom of the Opera" has become my obsession. I don't really know why, but it's become such a part of me that I have Phantom jewelry, clothing, memorabilia, books ... you name it. Perhaps my obsession comes from the tragedy of someone who became ugly inside because he was ugly to look at.
Even though I'm not a huge "Les Mis" fan, if I had to pick a character to emulate, it would be Jean Valjean. He took lemons and made lemonade, leaving behind a world that was a better place than he found it. In many ways, JVJ is the opposite of the Phantom.
I also echo the comment of the poster who mentioned that Eastern European Jews all feel personally connected to "Fiddler on the Roof." Talk about folks who made lemonade out of lemons ....
You alone can make my song take flight.