First of all, thank you to everyone who has provided their opinions/information - it's been very helpful, particularly seeing who people think are the more reputable critics vs. less so from a journalistic standpoint. Again, I may have asked my question in a less articulate way than intended, so that's on me if I confused anyone.
Hogan, I'm not the blocking type and will only say one more thing on this (I know, I know...), but part of your initial response was, indeed, demeaning and condescending (as they often are to others as well). You are more than entitled to have opinions, but you also leaped to the conclusion - based on nothing I even implied in my post - that I was looking for a "crutch" to pick what I see or couldn't make up my own mind. In your second post, you say you " do not think the purpose of this board is for responders to simply agree with what OPs propose." I wasn't even proposing anything - I asked a question. You made some negative assumption based on nothing in my post about my intentions for asking the question - and then proceeded to look down your nose at me.
I live in the Midwest and can only get to NYC to see so many shows a year based on cash flow, time away from work, etc. I tend to fill up every slot I have in the few days I have with shows, but I can only see what I think might be a "can't miss"; also, being outside of NYC, other than by reading message boards, etc., I don't get the benefit of word of mouth as much as a local would. And, taking theater trips from here requires a lot more research, planning and buying tickets (often at full price in advance) than it does for locals. So while I don't consider reviews a "crutch," I certainly have to rely partly on them. However, just as an example, despite the horrific reviews about Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, I still went to see it and actually had a great time (possibly because I went in with zero expectation that I would). There are plenty more examples in all directions (went despite poor reviews; didn't go despite raves; bought tickets before something even opened). So, I can and do make up my own mind at the end of the day, thank you. Indeed, you will never see a post from me entitled "what should I see?" (not that I think there's anything wrong with those) even though most of the time, I have too long a list and have to whittle it down.
Ok, rant really over, but I felt it needed to be said. You and some others on this board do it to so many people over the silliest things. Isn't the world nasty enough?
Thank you, again, for everyone's comments - they were very helpful. After the NYT and a couple of others, I can't always differentiate one publication from another in terms of journalistic integrity, experience, etc.