Brock75 said: "As a gay man living in a small town, the show was very elitist. Lopez seemed to be talking only to a certain demographic of gay men: "NYC gays are so cool and upwardly mobile!" We get it! Therein lies one of my biggest problems, I didn't really bond with any of the characters. Maybe Eric? When they are all together taking about how much the city has changed: Splash bar, etc. I would be in misery if I was at a party with these men and their pretentious conversations: Ravel?? Come on! Ugh! It was almost as if Lopez was saying, "I am part of this elite clique and look how cool I am!" This creates a distance between the characters and the audience. A very big gap.
As good as the actors are, the biggest slap in the face is that out of the company, the majority of the actorsare straight. Especially the leads. Only Hickey is a gay man out of the 5 main characters: Soller, Burnap, Levine and Hilton are all straight. If Lopez is "preaching to/teaching" the audience about the history of gay men what kind of reference do these actors have? Ryan Murphy's revival of "Boys in the Band" was publicized heavily that each of the actors were gay. There is a knowledge there. An understanding. An actual history. I can't believe this hasn't been more of a talking point. I understand that all actors can play any number of characters, blah, blah, blah and shouldn't be typecast, BUT! Don't get me wrong, the acting was terrific, I am taking away nothing from their work. It is just an ethical point to me. Lopez constantly reminds us about our history and understanding, but how can these actors even imagine what it is like to walk in our shoes? Shouldn't the casting process be about authenticity with a play like this? The "gay play of the decade" and the majority of the actors are straight? I might in the minority here, but it was insulting to me."
We were typing our replies around the same time so I just read your post now. First off, welcome to the board! Secondly, I've lived in NYC for 18 years (went to undergrad here) and am the same age as Eric Glass --- yet I, too, couldn't really relate to him. I've never been invited to a party at the Hamptons so I guess that tells you I'm not in the NYC elitist crew. lol. I did appreciate the gay club/bar references (though I was surprised they didn't mention HEAVEN or POP ROCKS or ROXY or The BIG CUP.) lol
I'm also surprised that the review rougeduck shared with us was the only review that brings up your point about casting. If there were barely any gay actors in NYC, then I understand why they ended up with having a mostly straight cast in the lead roles. Representation matters.