RippedMan said: "Having finally seeing the show, I don't get it. Most of the songs sound the same. The direction is boring. The design is boring. The acting/singing is great, but it's Broadway. I don't get it. The story sucks. He's an awful person - surrounded by awful friends and people - and the moral is basically "if you lie, and it helps people, that's okay." I don't understand why people are flocking to it? I mean, it's got a catchy score, so I'll give them that, but they're all singing "We Will Be Found," but all of them are desperately trying to fit in? So what's the point."
To me the point of the story is how there is no bad person/good person dichotomy. Everyone's got both, and you just have to keep pushing on and trying better. So if you want to read it as "he's a bad person," then yeah I think you're not going to enjoy the show because that's against what it's saying, to me. Be that on you or on the writing, the difference between your lack of enjoyment vs the enjoyment of others who see this show can just lie simply in how everyone is reading it.
A lot of people just enjoy it for the performances, though. Not every story has to have some profound meaning and sometimes it's just a story, and Dear Evan Hansen is a story told with some great performances, regardless of how you read the plot/characters.