What a sad read, but I’m not surprised by it at all. When I was at &Juliet last month, the audience completely ruined the entire show for me, and they certainly didn’t make it easy for the ushers.
The tween to the right of me kept coughing, sneezing, and blowing her nose (was clearly sick and of course wasn’t wearing a mask), talking to her cousin sitting to the right of her, then talking to her uncle who was sitting behind me to the left, crinkling candy wrappers - it was never ending for 2.5 hours. And that was only one person. To the left of me, and directly in front of me, two different middle-aged women taking their cell phones out and taking photos. In the center orchestra, a group of 7, and a group of 4, arguing mid show about a solo patron. The usher running over having to ask “what is going ON!”. Needless to say, it disrupted everyone around them, to no fault of the usher who was trying to de-escalate the situation.