Adding my condolences. A sudden and accidental death is especially inconsolable. There is no extended sickness during which to prepare for mourning. One day everything is fine, the next day nothing will ever be fine again. There is nothing anyone can say, nothing anyone can do. Our hearts go out to Bernadette and to Michael's family.
All the rest of us can do is love each other a little more, hold each other a little more, treasure each other a little more and think of how Bernadette has always made us glow, and how that glow will always surround her Michael.