This argument is nothing new. When there was a sit down production in Toronto (for which the Princess of Wales Theatre was built) there were protests outside the theatre for weeks and anti-Miss Saigon posters and leaflets all over the city.
As Hogan said, the times have changed and the musical now has to stand before the current cultural revolution. I think a lot of it’s appeal at the time of its opening was the groundswell about Lea’s voice and talent and the helicopter. People left blown away.
Having seen the last revival and tour, I was definitely more “meh” and felt the show had its moment decades earlier. I never need to see it again.
However, from the first time I saw it in the 90s I was unsettled and always wondered what it was like for the actresses to play those parts and be subjected to being grabbed, man handled, having to wear small clothes, dance provocatively and sing some of those demeaning lyrics. I wondered if the directors cared for their emotional safety or just treated those scenes as business as usual.
"The sexual energy between the mother and son really concerns me!"-random woman behind me at Next to Normal
"I want to meet him after and bang him!"-random woman who exposed her breasts at Rock of Ages, referring to James Carpinello