people need to stop being so butthurt about everything and making everything about them. its not that serious.
People also need to stop using "butthurt" as a form of ridicule.
At any rate, the "woman/man" quote requires context to understand why it works in the show as well as to mark it as potentially trans-phobic, so I don't think it's worth trying to manufacture outrage to the point of boycott or shaming the show. There are plenty of one-liners in the book to choose from for merchandising. It's unfortunate that their choice resulted in such negativity.
These items were meant in the humor of the show.
Well, they were also meant for display in the vast general public. Not everyone is going to know the context of the quote when they see it (or even be aware of the show itself, should they even happen to notice the word "Tootsie" on the item as it passes by). To me, this is not really about the person who purchases it, but about every random person who sees it and how they may react. I do think it's important to analyze the reaction and responses of quoted merchandise you specifically want to represent your product. Provocative statements and imagery is fine if your show desires to elicit strong political/social opinions and reactions. I don't think this specific negativity was a desired outcome for the usage of this quote on the merchandise.
"Friend of Dorothy" I actually think is kind of cute - I feel like I'm missing what's problematic, but am willing to be convinced otherwise
I think it's cute as well and will gladly purchase it. If anyone actually think it may be homophobic, they can't be too familiar with LGBT culture and history. That would not be the derogatory slur of choice for homophobes.
Yes, pretty much everything can spark outrage for any reason. This is true of the past and has increased exponentially as rapidly as the evolution of communication technology. People just don't have to grab a quill o scratch out a response and wait a fortnight or more for the message to be delivered by horse or typeset, mass-printed and distributed for sale. And it will likely continue along the same trajectory as it always has. To ignore it and blame the snowflakes is as stupid as standing naked in a blizzard yelling at the climate for changing.
"What can you expect from a bunch of seitan worshippers?" - Reginald Tresilian