rent boy~ I can apprecaite that those who come in to NYC from out of town to see their favorite show or actor like to make this a special event. I have assisted a few people to make it happen, when I'm in a position to do so.
My advice is to write the star c/o the theater. Be sure you get the right address and ZIP CODE (there's a lot of codes in NYC).
You can 1. send it regular mail 2. send it registered (to be sure it's received).
Depending on what you are hopeful for, be polite and don't assume it's going to happen. And always allow about a month if you are expecting an reply. Some stars are very dilligent about fan mail, others are not. It's not a reflection on the actor either. Fan mail means diferent things to different people. Don't take it too personal if you don't get a reply.
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